Auto-sabotage: Future Relationships...

If you have a predetermined attitude that every man you meet will be "selfish" and "chauvinistic" or "____" (fill in your own negative attributes), then you have decided the fate of all of your future relationships. So you might as well throw in the towel, and call it a day...Is that what you really want to do?

It's true that we are all human, and we will all make mistakes...but our mistakes should not be all-encompassing of who we are... I hope some of my previous actions haven't defined me, but more importantly I hope no one else's mistakes are defining me.

There is probably a guy out there thinking the same negative thoughts about girls that the girls are thinking about guys right now...and YOU could be the one to prove the opposite wrong.

BUT if he/she has predetermined that all girls/guys will be "_____" (fill in the negative blank), then that is how he/she will see them, and how they will see YOU. So you can't have a chance to be anything better than his/her previous experiences. How unfair! Unfair for him to prejudge you, or ruin their own opportunity with a wonderful girl/guy like yourself...

This thought process may actually sabotage the potentially good relationships that you could have. Don't partake in auto-sabotage... and try not to make the good guys responsible for the bad guys choices.

Be patient, and God will place someone in your life as He sees fit.

Love in Him, Jessica

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